Music Monday: Eminem, Gaga, And Mushy Love

So the Grammy's happened last night. That would theoretically make a great topic to discuss for Music Monday. But I'm going to skip talking about the Grammy's in and of themselves because musical tastes are so subjective and because I honestly haven't listened to all the acts nominated in the various categories I care about, so talking about who I thought should have or shouldn't have won just doesn't make much sense.

Instead I want to talk about one particular artist that won an award last night, Eminem. I'll clear this up really quick for everyone so there's no confusion: I abhor Eminem. I find him to be vile in his actions and lyrics, I think his creativity is severely lacking, and I personally think he's talentless. Of course, my opinions of him are tainted. I've despised him as an artist since he hit the scene and I haven't seen any redeeming qualities in him. In short, I don't care for the guy.

While watching the tail end of the Grammy's last night (we missed the first 2/3 due to a dinner engagement), I heard the announcer state that Eminem had won two awards earlier in the evening. And I lost it! My distaste for him runs so deep that I can't even fathom who would find value in his music, and the idea that he would be rewarded for his antics infuriated me. I may have swore at the TV and I may have thrown a tiny bit of a hissy fit... Possibly.

At this point, my husband looked at me and said "Seriously, cut it out. We get it. You don't like him. Move on. You're starting to sound like Gaga Hater." To which I opened my mouth to rebut… but couldn't say anything, because my husband was absolutely correct.

Gaga Hater deserves a bit of explanation. Gaga Hater is someone we met at a party and then friended on Facebook. Late last week, Lady Gaga's new single Born This Way hit the intertubes, and although the reactions to it have been a bit all over the place, Gaga Hater's reaction was "OMG, this song is trash and you're all IDIOTS if you like it." I thought that was a bit extreme and husband and I joked about it and moved one.

So when my husband pointed out that I was acting exactly like Gaga Hater, I knew he was right and I knew I was being a jackass.

I don't have to like Eminem. In fact, it's likely I will never even get to being OK with Eminem. But I don't have to act like an imbecile because he has a career. Obviously, plenty other people disagree with my assessment of him as an artist. He's won several awards and he's been praised by critics that I respect. I don't like his art, but that doesn't mean his art is valueless.

What I do have to do is cross over from being a jerk about something that is ultimately inconsequential and become someone that can have a civil discussion about the merits of an artist's work. I don't find art that is focused on violence and misogynistic rhetoric is particularly valuable, and that's a point I can make in that discussion. However, I need to understand that others may not see things the way I do. And, most importantly, they don't have to.

So while I don't think I can ever truly "get" why someone would like Eminem, I don't think that anyone that does like him is an idiot.

It may be ironic, but it's because of Eminem and my hate for the guy that I'm in such a mushy, lovey spot right now. You see, it's these sort of lessons that I learn from my husband every day that make me love him more and more. He wants me to be the best person I can be, and it all comes from a place of love. Happy Valentine's Day, sweetheart! You continue to help me grow every single day

Oppulence

Anyone familiar with my writing when I was with Homotron knows my love of all things Hello Kitty. Now toss in Lady Gaga, and not only do I want to buy that dress, I want to wear it to work. Everyday.

Check The Hatorade Plz

OK, ok, I know you've seen this already. But I'm still floored by this kid's talent! He's got an amazing voice, serviceable piano skills, and an excellent grasp of song writing. Yeah, it's a cover, but he does an amazing job manipulating the song to make it his own. He's got a couple original songs on his YouTube page that are equally as amazing, you should definitely check those out as well.

I know the internet is full of vile, hateful, disgusting troll folk normally banished to the underside of the nastiest of bridges in remote areas, but it really annoys me the hate that people have been posting about this kid. Yep, it's probably my fault for reading YouTube comments... but still. He's 12 and he's amazingly talented! I know jealousy is a powerful beast, but can't we put it in check every once in a while?

Gaga And Beyonce Go Lesbian

I don't know what else to say about this video.  It's pure Win!  Gaga, Beyonce, and lesbians galore... oh, and wonder woman inspired costumes.  There is absolutely nothing that is not perfect in this video.

Watch it.  Now! 

I don't think I EVER expected Beyonce to do something like this, much less play a lesbian, if by innuendo only.  After Gaga's extremely gay-centric Some Me Your Teeth video, I'm not too surprised to see her bust out something lesbianesque, but Beyonce doing it just seems.... well, perfect!

Lesbians.  Jail.  Cabaret-inspired outfits.  "Sunglasses" made of smoking cigarettes.  Beyonce committing mass homicide.  A big-ass truck named the "Pussy Wagon."  If that's not enough to make you watch this 10-minute clip, you probably don't have  a soul anymore.

Lady Gaga's Speechless Minus Autotune

The girl is crazy for sure, but that might be what I love about her.  Y'all know I'm not much of a pop fan.  Just look at the music I feature, it's almost all rock or folk (except Janet... she's just amazing).  But lately I've grown to really like Lady Gaga and Adam Lambert.

This clip is from her performance on Ellen this last week.  I just love it.  This song on the album is pretty good, but I like it much more without the auto-tune.  She's got a really great voice that I hope they actually feature on her next album.