First things first, this guy is cute! OK, that out of the way, this is cute video blog regarding what is and is not acceptable PDA (Public Display of Affection), which is an extremely interesting topic when thrown into the gay context.
We are all pretty aware of what is acceptable in general, like Daniel here says: as long as the intent doesn't appear completely sexual, rather more affectionate, than we're ok with it. But when it comes to Homo loving in public, we are in a weird zone.
My boyfriend and I are very affectionate. Always have been. So much so that I think we make a few of our friends uncomfortable when they're around us. But I have to question whether they're uncomfortable with our level of affection, or they're worried about reactions from the randoms around us.
Most gay people I know are not really comfortable with showing PDA with their partner. I understand, and I wouldn't recommend running down Main Street holding hands with your man for everyone, but I'm curious what everyone else out there feels? Do you walk the boardwalk staring deeply into your boys eyes, or do you sit in the theater not touching, acting more like buddies than boyfriends?
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My ex and I held hands everywhere. Then we were nearly killed by a couple of skinheads. We still held hands.
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